My dad’s dog and my rat have now officially met.


My dad’s dog and my rat have now officially met.


Some examples of gender expression:

Feminine , Masculine-Feminine , Feminine-Masculine , Masculine

I lost a whooole load of asks from last night because my phone didn’t post them

incase anyone doesn’t see their ask, that’s probably why .-.



By Day a Boy, by Night a Vampire.

What is 50 shades of grey about? And what's so bad about it?
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50 Shades of Grey was originally fanfiction based on the Twilight series, which was then published as a novel (along with 2 subsequent books). It sold over 100 million copies around the world and topped best-seller lists everywhere. It’s about to be adapted into a film, set to come out early next year.

It follows a college student named Ana Steele, who enters a relationship with a man named Christian Grey and is then introduced to a bastardised and abusive parody of BDSM culture.

While the book is paraded as erotica, the relationship between Ana and Christian is far from healthy. The core mantra of the BDSM community is “safe, sane and consensual”, and 50 Shades is anything but. None of the rules of BDSM practices (which are put in place to protect those involved) are actually upheld. Christian is controlling, manipulative, abusive, takes complete advantage of Ana, ignores safe-words, ignores consent, keeps her uneducated about the sexual practices they’re taking part in, and a multitude of other terrible things. Their relationship is completely sickening and unhealthy.

Basically, “the book is a glaring glamorisation of violence against women,” as Amy Bonomi so perfectly put it. 

It’s terrible enough that a book like this has been absorbed by people worldwide. Now, we have a film that is expected to be a huge box-office success, and will likely convince countless more young women that it’s okay not to have any autonomy in a relationship, that a man is allowed to control them entirely. It will also show many young men that women are theirs to play with and dominate, thus contributing to antiquated patriarchal values and rape culture.


I don’t really ever give a shit about 50 shades of grey but this is important for people to know, when the movie comes out it’ll be much more accessible for a lot of young women and that’s dangerous. On top of that, the misinformation spread about BDSM through this book and movie will create a lot of unhealthy precedent for relationships everywhere. There is already a huge population of people who believe BDSM is like this and it results in safety issues and aggression (often when someone doesn’t agree with such a ridiculous and unreasonable idea of BDSM), a combination that will go down many dark roads.


Angelica summing up what having responsibilities really means.

Nosebleeds are fun.

Unless you find beauty in the rain and darkness itself.

Unless you find beauty in the rain and darkness itself.